Proverbs 19:11 The discretion of a man deferreth his anger; and it is his glory to pass over a transgression.
Growing in Christ means we learn to control our temper, and when people transgress against us, instead of lashing out in anger we just let it go. Webster’s 1828 Dictionary defines “discretion” as that discernment which enables a person to judge critically of what is correct and proper, united with caution….primarily regarding one’s own conduct. As we grow and study scripture we see how Christ handled his scorners and learn how he controlled his anger as he dealt with them. Just because we think someone deserves a piece of our mind doesn’t mean we have to give it to them. Let Christ fight for you. You focus on growing in the grace of Jesus Christ. Next time give grace to your offender and let it go. -2Peter 3:18